Barry Keoghan Opens Up About Fatherhood: How His Son Brando Changed Him Forever
Barry Keoghan, the talented Irish actor celebrated for his riveting performances in Saltburn and The Banshees of Inisherin, has always maintained a certain mystique about his personal life. However, in a recent video campaign advocating for childcare reform in the UK, Keoghan offered a rare and heartfelt glimpse into his life as a father to his 2-year-old son, Brando. The video, which also featured UK Secretary of State David Lammy, delved into the challenges of parenting and the vital importance of strong childcare systems.
A Rare Look Into Fatherhood
Reflecting on his experiences, the 32-year-old actor shared, “Having Brando made me think deeply about my parents and what they must have gone through. When I was growing up, I didn’t fully grasp how hard it was for them—especially my mum, who passed away when I was just 12.” Keoghan’s mother tragically died from a heroin overdose, leaving a void in his life that he now strives to fill as a father. “Looking back, I realize how crucial it was to have a support system in place. It saved me in many ways.”
Keoghan also spoke about the responsibility he feels to use his platform for good. “I believe in shining a light on issues that matter, and for me, anything involving children and care hits close to home. It’s a privilege to advocate for those who need it most.”
Balancing Fatherhood and Stardom
Keoghan’s journey into fatherhood began during one of the most demanding periods of his career. While filming Saltburn in 2023, he became a father for the first time. In a candid interview with GQ in January 2024, he humorously recalled the chaotic yet rewarding experience.
“They gave me a single day off to welcome Brando into the world. Just one!” he laughed. “The next day, I was back on set, juggling night feeds and intense filming schedules. You could see the exhaustion on my face, but honestly, it was all worth it. Brando brought a new kind of energy and purpose into my life.”
The actor also credited fatherhood with reshaping his priorities, saying, “It’s no longer just about me. Everything I do now, I do with him in mind.”
Facing the Critics
Despite his dedication, Keoghan hasn’t been spared from online scrutiny. In September 2024, during an appearance on The Louis Theroux Podcast, he addressed the harsh criticisms that labeled him a “deadbeat dad.”
“There’s a lot of noise out there,” he admitted. “If I didn’t have thick skin, I don’t know how I’d cope. People online love to twist narratives. They take the fact that I don’t post much about Brando and turn it into this whole story about me being an absent father. It’s infuriating.”
Keoghan explained that his decision to limit Brando’s presence on social media was intentional. “I’ve chosen to keep him out of the spotlight as much as possible. He didn’t ask to be in the public eye, so I want to protect him. But of course, that leads to people making wild assumptions. It’s disgusting, really, the audacity of some people to use my child as a weapon in their comments.”
Redefining Fatherhood
Keoghan’s approach to parenting is shaped by his own turbulent childhood. During the Toronto International Film Festival in September 2024, he reflected on his unconventional upbringing.
“I didn’t have a father figure growing up, so I’ve had to figure it out as I go. That’s why my relationship with Brando might not look like a textbook father-son bond—it’s unique because I’m learning every step of the way. But one thing’s for sure: I’m giving it my all.”
Despite parting ways with Brando’s mother, Alyson Sandro, in mid-2023, Keoghan remains deeply committed to his role as a father. “We may not be together, but that doesn’t change how much I love my son or how hard I’m working to give him the best life possible.”
A Legacy of Love
Barry Keoghan’s story is one of resilience, transformation, and unwavering love. From a boy who grew up in the care system to a man navigating the complexities of fatherhood in the public eye, his journey is both inspiring and deeply human.
As he continues to balance the demands of his flourishing career with his commitment to Brando, Keoghan serves as a reminder that even in the face of criticism and challenges, the love of a parent can transcend all obstacles.
